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Our selfish selfies point out our need for the gospel

selfie_graphicLove Thy Neighbor as Thy Selfie” is a thought-provoking post on Tim Challies blog. The author, Nathan Eshelman, starts out by explaining that “selfie” is the Oxford English word of the year.

What is a selfie you might ask? The OED defines selfie as “a photograph that one has taken of oneself, typically one taken with a smartphone or webcam and uploaded to a social media website.”

The author goes on to point out that “The selfie is a reflection of the corporate fallen heart of mankind” and it points out our need for the gospel.

So let’s be honest- we are selfish selfies. May we find grace to deny ourselfies as we cling to Christ that he might cure our selfish fallen hearts.

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Posted by on August 26, 2014 in Culture, Tim Challies


Can a Christian leader drink alcoholic beverages?

A friend recently asked me if I covered the subject of the use of alcohol by Christian leaders in my blog. I replied that I had not (until now). However, I had shared my thoughts on the subject with my children back in December 2009. Several years ago when my two oldest children were nearing their college graduations, I started writing what I referred to as, “One dad’s rambling thoughts on becoming an adult.” I tried to periodically address topics and share convictions on issues that we had not previously discussed. The following is what I wrote to them on the subject of drinking. I copied it and sent it to my friend as well. I also mentioned that it is a subject on which the Christian community has changed its opinion in the past generation.

Whether or not you agree with my convictions, I trust this post will challenge you to think through the issues, read the Scriptures, and develop your own convictions.



It’s time for another exciting adventure of “one dad’s rambling thoughts on becoming an adult.” This time I wanted to share some thoughts On Drinking. When __________ was here for her interview with __________, we talked briefly, but I wanted to expand on that discussion as well as share my thoughts with all of you.

Growing up, you guys were taught by us and others to avoid alcohol and drugs. You have attended schools where that was part of the contract or code of conduct. But as you all know, agreeing to a rule and/or signing a contract does not mean that people will follow it. It really comes down to living according to your convictions. As you become adults and leave academia, you will need to develop and live by your own convictions on this subject.

Rather than tell you what to do, let me explain how I developed my own convictions and practice on this issue.

I grew up in a family that was fairly legalistic in its practices. “Good Christians Don’t” was the ruling motto, and it was generally followed by “smoke, drink, or chew, or go out with girls that do.” We couldn’t play cards—Rook was OK; but Poker, Pinochle, or any game with playing cards was bad. My brother and I sat on the sidelines when the class did square dancing in elementary school P.E. Movies were evil unless they were Disney animation, though I don’t quite know how the witches in Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, etc., slipped under the radar. The first non-Disney movie I saw was The Sound of Music. So you can imagine what my parents thought of alcohol.

Going to __________ , the list of restricted activities was longer than it is today. All that to say, I was pretty well told what to do, but very seldom was it explained why.

While attending __________ , one of my professors was __________ of the Bible Department. Loved his classes, hated his tests. During my freshman year, I remember him telling the class to “be mature about the rules of __________ .”

One of the more helpful lectures I remember from __________ was on how to deal with gray areas. He gave us a list of six questions to ask ourselves:

  • Does the Bible speak to the issue? If so, follow the instructions. If not, ask:
  • Will it help me? 1 Corinthians 6:12a – “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful.”
  • Will it build up the body of Christ? 1 Corinthians 10:23b – “All things are lawful,” but not all things build up.
  • Is it addicting? 1 Corinthians 6:12b – “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be enslaved by anything.
  • Will it cause others to stumble? 1 Corinthians 8:9-13 – “But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol’s temple, will he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols? And so by your knowledge this weak person is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died. Thus, sinning against your brothers and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.”
  • Does it glorify God? 1 Corinthians 10:31 – “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

I used those principles to develop my own convictions on the subject of drinking alcohol.

  • Does the Bible speak to the issue? Sort of. The Bible condemns drunkenness, but may allow drinking.
  • Will it help me? Drunkenness will certainly affect my health, driving, decision making, etc., but drinking in moderation still seems gray.
  • Will it build up the body of Christ? In a social setting, drinking could help build a relationship with someone, but that seems like a stretch. On the other hand, if I’m with a non-believer, my lack of drinking could hinder building a relationship.
  • Is it addicting? Drinking wine might be safe, but harder alcohol could certainly be a problem.
  • Will it cause others to stumble? This is probably the key question for me. Assuming I may feel the freedom to drink, might my practice offend someone?
  • Does it glorify God? If C. H. Spurgeon could say of smoking, “I smoke this stogie to the glory of God,” I suppose I could lift a glass of wine and say the same thing.

Having worked through those questions, I came to the conclusion that biblically, I feel that I have the freedom to drink in moderation. However, I choose not to. I don’t want to take the chance of offending someone who might see me. As a parent, I didn’t want to give you a double message that it was ok for me but not for you. As a pastor or leader, how would someone respond if they saw me drinking? I also don’t want to take the chance on becoming addicted. The fact that I don’t care for the smell or taste of beer makes that a non-issue, and being ambivalent about wine helps, but I make my choice primarily on the basis of convictions.

Having said that, there are occasions when mom & I have had a glass of wine or champagne, primarily to be social. At the end of the __________ , the team would celebrate with a glass of champagne. On one trip, __________ wanted to try vodka, so I had a glass with him. I didn’t get past the first sip because it tasted like paint thinner. Not that I’ve ever tried that, but it does burn all the way down. A few weeks ago, we were at the __________ for a __________ and I had a glass of wine with everyone else.

In summary, I feel the freedom to drink, but I choose not to. On the rare occasion that I do, it is a social setting with people who I feel comfortable with and don’t worry about what they may think. I also try not to pass judgment on others who don’t have my same convictions.

This might be one of those topics that would be good to discuss when we are together.

See you in a few days. Love you.



Posted by on August 11, 2014 in Culture, Personal growth, Scripture


Are we compromising our message to fit our culture?

“Most Americans do not worship the gods of other religions. Instead, we worship comfort, control, power, or approval. We have an imbedded sense of entitlement. The culture goes to great lengths to build self-esteem and fuel an idolatrous look within to find strength, peace, and control. As you might imagine, the doctrine of original sin is offensive to this popular notion of self-esteem and the inherent goodness of people. So, some churches do not mention sin for fear it will turn off those they are trying to reach. The culture also says that we should get what we want when we want it. So, some churches proclaim a God who is akin to a genie in a bottle, simply waiting to grant our every wish and desire. In each of these instances, the church has forsaken their light and drifted into the shadows of compromise, thus losing the opportunity to rightly live out the command to be in the world, but not of it.”

Matt Chandler, Josh Patterson, Eric Geiger, in Creature of the Word: The Jesus-Centered Church

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Posted by on July 12, 2014 in Church, Culture, Quotes


How does one change the culture of the church?

Musings for a Thursday morning, or questions I wrestle with.

  • How does one change the culture of the church?
  • How do we become more outward focused instead of inward focused?
  • How do we develop a passion for the lost?
  • How do we develop a willingness to do whatever it takes rather than settle for the easy option?
  • How do we develop an abundance mentality instead of a scarcity mentality?
  • How do we help people become generous with their time, talents, and treasures?
  • How do we help get people looking forward and let go of the past?
  • How do we stop people from standing on the brake and resisting progress?
  • How do we encourage people to take greater risks rather than strive for comfort and status quo?
  • How do we encourage people to pursue Christ and stop dabbling with sin?
  • How do we help people stop making excuses for sin, compromise, mediocrity, etc?
  • How do we get people out of the pew and into ministry?
  • How do we help people objectively evaluate our ministries rather than fixate on the forms?
  • How does one bring about revival in a church?

Much to pray about.


Posted by on June 26, 2014 in Church, Culture


Tired of waiting?

Tired of waiting in line? Got better things to do with your time? Short of patience yet filled with places to be and things to do? Then hire a professional line sitter!

Hate long lines? Consider a professional line sitter” tells the story of Robert Samuel, who founded S.O.L.D. or Same Old Line Dudes, a professional line sitting company that fields requests to wait (and wait and wait) for everything from sneaker launches to concert tickets. “Whatever you want, we wait for it,” he said, provided you’re willing to pay $25 for the first hour and $10 for each additional half hour.

In a culture where time is worth more than money, it’s not surprising a business like this sprang up. However, I doubt very seriously whether or not God will allow someone else to take our place when he wants to work in our lives.

Psalm 130:5–6 (ESV)   I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in his word I hope; my soul waits for the Lord more than watchmen for the morning, more than watchmen for the morning.

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Posted by on June 21, 2014 in Culture, News stories, Scripture, Time


How do people view the Bible?

Do people still read the Bible? Do people still believe the Bible? These questions and others are answered in the latest research from the Barna Group in “The State of the Bible: 6 Trends for 2014.” This year’s research reveals six trends in Bible engagement: from the Bible’s continued role as a cultural icon, to increased digital Bible reading, to a rise in skepticism toward Scripture, particularly among Millennials. Regardless of whether you are discouraged or encouraged, the results help to define the attitudes and trends of the society in which we live and are called to minister.

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Posted by on April 10, 2014 in Culture, News stories


More than a codebook for behavior

Dr. Albert Mohler has written another thought provoking article entitled, “Moralism is Not the Gospel (But many Christians think it is).” He points out that moralism is the belief that the gospel can be reduced to improvements in behavior. Moralism treats the Bible as simply a codebook for human behavior. In essence, it is a gospel of self-improvement. Mohler’s insights are similar to what Dallas Willard expressed when he pointed out that many Christians pursue a doctrine of sin management rather than true holiness (see chapter 2 in his book, The Divine Conspiracy).


Posted by on April 9, 2014 in Books, Culture, Spiritual disciplines


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