To get WiFi during our visit to SoCal, we usually buy a Coke at McDonalds and use their free internet. Next door is a Christmas tree lot which imports the trees from Oregon. Part of their service is to offer flocking, adding artificial snow to trees. While that might be a good idea, only in Cali will you find pink, red, and blue flocked trees. It reminds us of a Smurf convention. Guess we’ll head back to MA to find the real snow flocked trees.
Monthly Archives: November 2015
During the first half of the NFL football game between the Pittsburgh Steelers and the Seattle Seahawks on November 29, 2015, the Steelers went for a fake field goal. Landry Jones’ attempted pass was intercepted by the Seahawks Jeremy Lane, who returned it 54 yards to set up a touchdown. At halftime, Steelers’ coach Mike Tomlin was asked about taking the risk rather than going for the safer three points. Tomlin responded, “We don’t live in our fears; we live in our hopes.”
Some expect the worst and avoid taking risks while others expect the best and strive to excel. Some people play not to lose while others play to win.
On Friday, Carol & I and Nancy & Russ Spradlin and our respective families took Tom & Barbara Bolinger out for lunch to celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary. Not all the kids and grandkids were able to be there, and we missed Ruth & John Jordan and Dan & Mihoko Bolinger and their families as well as Caitlin Wheeler. We enjoyed a barbecue feast at Lucille’s and then went back to the house for a cake from Costco. The figurines by the cake were from Tom & Barbara’s original wedding cake.
We’re in SoCal visiting family. What visit would not be complete without a trip to Disneyland? It’s one of our favorite places, especially when decorated for the holidays.
Book Review: The Entitlement Cure: Finding success in doing hard things the right way, by Dr. John Townsend
Dr. John Townsend has written a very helpful book aimed at correcting an entitlement mentality. The book can be useful for someone who struggles with that approach to life or for someone trying to help someone caught up in that mindset.
For those not familiar with the concept, entitlement is the belief that “I am exempt from responsibility and I am owed special treatment. Entitlement is: The man who thinks he is above all the rules. The woman who feels mistreated and needs others to make it up to her.”
The author believes that the solution to entitlement is “the Hard Way.” The Hard Way is “the habit of doing what is best, rather than what is comfortable, to achieve a worthwhile outcome.” Following the hard way will lead to: a path to reaching your own goals and dreams; better-quality relationships; a clarified career and job direction; a way to face and solve challenges; better self-care and life balance; and spiritual growth.
Throughout the book, Dr. Townsend provides skills and exercises to help people overcome the entitlement mindset. He provides strategies to help one grasp the value of keeping inconvenient commitments, finding ways to minimize regrets, how to take a meaningful risk every week, and understanding why saying “I don’t know” is the first step toward success.
If you find yourself stuck in “easy way” living, this book will encourage you how to make progress in overcoming it. Well-worth reading.
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