Book Review: The Entitlement Cure: Finding success in doing hard things the right way, by Dr. John Townsend
Dr. John Townsend has written a very helpful book aimed at correcting an entitlement mentality. The book can be useful for someone who struggles with that approach to life or for someone trying to help someone caught up in that mindset.
For those not familiar with the concept, entitlement is the belief that “I am exempt from responsibility and I am owed special treatment. Entitlement is: The man who thinks he is above all the rules. The woman who feels mistreated and needs others to make it up to her.”
The author believes that the solution to entitlement is “the Hard Way.” The Hard Way is “the habit of doing what is best, rather than what is comfortable, to achieve a worthwhile outcome.” Following the hard way will lead to: a path to reaching your own goals and dreams; better-quality relationships; a clarified career and job direction; a way to face and solve challenges; better self-care and life balance; and spiritual growth.
Throughout the book, Dr. Townsend provides skills and exercises to help people overcome the entitlement mindset. He provides strategies to help one grasp the value of keeping inconvenient commitments, finding ways to minimize regrets, how to take a meaningful risk every week, and understanding why saying “I don’t know” is the first step toward success.
If you find yourself stuck in “easy way” living, this book will encourage you how to make progress in overcoming it. Well-worth reading.
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